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When Looking Back on Life Gives Motivation to Move Forward

On ditching the Quarantine 15 and “What If” Syndrome

Barbara Cleary
5 min readMar 2, 2021

Remember the “Freshman 15” from college days? You know, the idea that almost every college freshman gains 15 pounds during that first year away from home? I am beginning to feel as if there should be a similar phrase coined for this past year, like the “Quarantine 15”.

The last 12 months have been some of the most challenging of my life, and I didn’t deal with it very well. Not only did my health coaching practice collapse, but I found myself falling back to all the negative and unhealthy habits I had worked hard to discard and replace in the past seven years. Life has been a total mess.

One year and 15 pounds later, it is time to get serious about The Quarantine 15 specifically, and my life in general. I will admit that I have been postponing the inevitable for several months; so much so that I have diagnosed myself with “If Only Syndrome” (IOS). It goes like this:

If only those in my house would stay in bed a little longer in the mornings I might be able to read and write in quiet and solitude.

If only my daughter would use the desk in her room for her activities rather than the kitchen table, I would be able to concentrate enough to actually complete a…

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Barbara Cleary
Barbara Cleary

Written by Barbara Cleary

Catholic wife/mom/Nan to four grandchildren. Writing about my faith, and life in a chaotic multigenerational home while trying to see the humor in it all.

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